Dealing with Parents/friends/anybody else?1

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    Crunchtime
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    My parents came over this weekend and the first thing they tell me is they don’t feel that I am studying enough for the tests. I am married and have my own house and see them maybe 3-4 times a year. I almost flip out, at this point I am going to stop telling them when my tests are and when my scores come out. If i see anybody at a grocery store that I know I try to steer the conversation away from the CPA test as much as possible. It is actually quite exhausting, How do you guys deal with this?

    AUD-77
    BEC-70,73,68,74 SH##!!!!!, 80
    REG-73,76
    FAR -74,82

    Ethics here I come!!

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  • #586288
    Anonymous
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    It's imperative to go berzerker on everyone you see until you pass 3 out of 4 exams. It's all downhill from there.

    It's not required, although it may make you feel better to go berzerker after you pass three exams.

    Being 3/4 there, I speak from experience.

    #586289
    rana_cali
    Member

    I know exactly what ur going through. I try to avoid this topic as much as possible. I used to tell my parents (and friends) when I had exams and it got really frustrating because they were always curious to see if I passed, which adds so much pressure.

    Now I don't tell ANYONE when I have an exam. That way, it's less pressure. I study at my own pace, and once I'm ready to take an exam, I take a half day off of work or call in sick and I go and take it. No one at work needs to know cuz then ur boss or friends are all up in ur business with questions like “How many exams do u still have” or “When do ur results come out?”

    AUD: 84
    FAR: 75
    BEC: 78
    REG: 75

    DONE-ZO!!!!!!!!

    REG: Used Becker 2014 book, NINJA MCQ, Ninja notes, ninja audio
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    #586290
    CPA50
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    Hi Crunch, that's tough! Hopefully the meaning behind it is that they really want to see you pass and succeed, it's just coming out like a criticism. I limit who I tell to those who I know will be supportive. I usually tell people the general timing of the tests and score release and then tell them if I don't volunteer that I passed, don't ask me. Be honest and tell them that the tests are very difficult and that you need their undying love and support in order to pass 🙂

    AUD - 80
    BEC - 77
    FAR - 80
    REG - 80
    3 years

    + 16 tests

    + 2 expired sections

    = DONE FOREVER!

    AUD 88 (expired), 80 retake
    FAR 64,69,67,73,67,73,73,73, August 3
    REG 75 (expired) September 7
    BEC 72, 77

    The adventure continues...

    #586291
    Tncincy
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    Avoid talking…..i stopped after I needed to change my test dates. I don't know why I felt to obligated to tell everyone the dates, and scores. They(family and friends) used these opportunities to compare me to others or decided if I am cut out for accounting. Who asked them anyway. It is very aggravating, but it's my decision if I will continue or when I will take the test. I can't take the stress so I am doing what I have to do and skipping the constant updates. I am wondering if they will be happy when (not if) I pass.

    It begins with a 75
    Been here too long as a cheerleader.....time to pass

    It begins with a 75
    Been here too long as a cheerleader....ready to pass

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