So sorry for you loss. I know how much I hate when people say “I know how you feel” but I was in this same exact situation just 2 months ago.
My grandmother also passed away after a short struggle with small cell lung cancer in February. When it was discovered, she was given 4 months, and lived for one despite her positive attitude and young age (she was in her early 70's). I was also very close and raised by her.
That month was an emotional roller coaster. Everyday I was waiting for the call saying she had passed away, she'd get released from the hospital and immediately taken back in. My family and I were in constant shambles and I felt guilt knowing that she never wanted us to feel sad.
The coping is difficult, but it needs to happen. I cried almost everyday up until her service. For me, I felt a ton better after her service and sorting out her belongings among our family. Seeing how many lives she touched, learning all of her adventures, and seeing the big and loving family she created put me at peace and I knew that she had lived a great a satisfying life.
I think in time you will start to look at it differently. She is still around and you can sense her presence at times. She is just in a better place, without suffering and watching you live out your life, the way she would have wanted you to.
All of this happened in the middle of my retake for FAR, which partially explains the score. My gramma would have never let me use that as an excuse though, so I think of her every time I push myself in this process, and how she was so proud of me.
If you need someone to talk to, I'd be happy to give you my contact information.
B 71 - 79 EXPIRED
A 69 - 75 EXPIRED
R 65 - 48 - 45
F 56 - 61 - 65 - 64
Becker, Wiley Test Bank, Wiley Text and Ninja Notes
"The fish who keeps on swimming is the first to chill upstream" -311
Experience - Done, like WAAAY done.
Still need 30 more credits, in basket weaving (gotta love new CA requirements)