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I’ve been working for my dad for almost six years now. I didn’t grow up wanting to be a CPA and didn’t actually start my CPA journey until about three years ago. I still want to be a CPA more than anything and I want to prove to myself that I can truly accomplish something great with my life. I’m not in it for the money. I work hard (at least I try my best to) and try to the best of my abilities.
My problem is is that I work with my dad. He’s been a CPA for 45 years and has had his own firm (the one I currently work at) for around 35 years. Much longer than I’ve been alive. He is very accomplished in the field and has nearly all the answers when it comes to tax law. He is never condescending, but doesn’t give me credit for the good work that I do. If I come up with a clever idea that seems reasonable, he never considers it and always nitpicks and destroys my ideas because I’m a grasshopper. On top of this, he isn’t a very good teacher and is rather impatient. This alone kind of drives me crazy, but the long busy seasons usually end in frequent arguments or disagreements as well.
I’m worried my growth as a professional is somewhat hindered by working for my dad and I have often wondered if it would better serve me going to another firm or possibly even getting out of public and going into industry (industry interests me a bit more for various reasons).
Also, I’m not a CPA yet. I’ve been trying for almost three years and I’m getting close to passing, but just not there yet. I’m 31 and my undergraduate degree was unrelated to accounting, so I essentially had to go back to school (Masters and some undergraduate classes) and teach myself everything that I know and use today.
My tentative plan at the moment is to get through this upcoming busy season and then start job searching/resume work (assuming I’m a CPA). Basically, I feel handicapped and I don’t enjoy being the “bosses son” very much.
Has anyone experienced anything like this in the past or currently? Even if you haven’t do you have any advice? How do you deal with something like this? I’m not trying to come off as arrogant or pretentious, because I suppose this isn’t a real problem. I’m lucky to have a well-paying job and I realize that. However, I do feel that my career may be better suited somewhere else.
I apologize for the long rant. Thanks for listening/reading.
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