[KelzMS]

I feel so awful that I only see my boyfriend once a week and that is for like 4 hours. I go to his house after my Becker course on Saturdays but have to study the rest of the week. I have accepted that I cannot see him until I am through taking the exams, but I feel like I am a terrible girlfriend, especially when I had to tell him tonight that I do not have time to hang out with him. He has had a terrible week and I can’t go see him and make him feel better. He understands how important this is but that doesn’t make me feel any less awful. Does anyone else feel like they are awful because they never spend time with their boyfriend/girlfriend? I’m not trying to be whiny here (I’m not complaining because I can’t see him-I’m just saying I feel like I am not doing him right).

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[Anonymous]

Haha I wouldn't worry about it, I'm sure like you said, he understands how important this is and will stick it out with you. Now, I'm sure this post is not going to go down well with my fellow female community members lol, but I would say that if you really want him to know how much you appreciate his patience and understanding, I would just make sure you make every encounter with him (even if just once a week) a…erm…satisfying one lol. Yadda I mean? Haha throw him some of that sweet lovin and you'll keep him in the game…once a week…not ideal, but still plenty (especially if he wants to be with you for the long term). Good luck!

[KelzMS]

Thanks! I try to make sure he knows how much I appreciate him. This is a long-term relationship and we both really appreciate each other. After I take Audit (even if I fail-which I really hope I don't!) I'm not going to study as much. I'm just trying to take the exams as I go through the Becker courses so I am cramming. Once I take all once, then I will spread out any that I fail so it won't be as hard on us.

Thanks for your reply! I feel better about it now! Only 1 more month!! 🙂

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